My Struggles With Body Image

Abbie is finally opening up about her struggles with her body image and past. We hope her honesty and vulnerability helps just one person watching this video.

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  • Get better soon !

  • birth control has sooo many horrible horrible side effects

    TygafttfTygafttf19 päeva tagasi
  • ✨She is unique, kind-hearted, smiley and fun!✨🥺😟 I'm sorry you two had to get through that. You guys are my fav youtubers x.😀😊😉 -olivia-💖

    Yu UhYu Uh19 päeva tagasi
  • ♥️♥️♥️

    Lalrinawmi RawiteLalrinawmi Rawite20 päeva tagasi
  • Okay, so you are 1.76m and got to 48kg. Wow, that's thin. LOL I have always to translate for myself the American messurements ;) Sorry

    Marisa JürgensMarisa Jürgens21 päev tagasi
  • This video had more influence on me than any other positive body image video I’ve ever seen. Thank you

    Ruby RubikRuby Rubik27 päeva tagasi
  • Abbie, you are really so strong and empowering. Crazy proud of you

    Isabelle MarieIsabelle Marie27 päeva tagasi
  • 👏🏼 that was a good talk, thanks for being so open.

    JackyJacky28 päeva tagasi
  • Love you guys! From Philippines

    Joc CastilloJoc Castillo28 päeva tagasi
  • amen girl

    Er JoEr Jo29 päeva tagasi
  • Thank you for sharing all this... it helps me a lot! love u guys

    Claudia NappiClaudia NappiМісяць tagasi
  • Thank you Abbie ❤️

    Kelsey - Lilly- WhiteKelsey - Lilly- WhiteМісяць tagasi
  • Wow as a young teenager I am trying to keep a healthy weight and it’s really hard being over weight and it’s not easy

    Elizabeth YannarelliElizabeth YannarelliМісяць tagasi
  • Thank you so much for sharing 💕

    Janai BurnsJanai BurnsМісяць tagasi
  • Thank you!

    Katherine HuangKatherine HuangМісяць tagasi
  • How josh is so sweet showing his stretchmarks, gurl ur pretty and we should never forget to always support other women! 🥰

    Biandra Az-ZahraBiandra Az-ZahraМісяць tagasi
  • As a preteen/teenager this helped a lot with my insecurities

    Mia RhodesMia RhodesМісяць tagasi
  • It's hard to learn to love your body I am really struggling with this right now and I dont know how to overcome it. I just want to feel beautiful and its so hard to encourage myself and help myself feel confident.

    Vianey RenteriaVianey RenteriaМісяць tagasi
    • Also, another little piece of advice is that you don't have to focus on where you finally wanna get to, but on where you want to get to in a short period of time. For example, instead of saying "I want to feel beautiful and to love myself" (which is a great deal and is reached by small efforts and it is also really general), you can think "I want to tell myself my (*one part of your body you are struggling with*) is okay how it is and it does not need to be changed" (and after accepting that part of your body is "okay", you teach yourself to see it is actually "beautiful"). It is easier achieving to think "X part of my body is okay and it doesn't need to be changed" at first, than "I am beautiful and I love myself". Because the first one is more specific. If you set general goals, you will be more prone to get anxious or blame yourself if you don't reach them. It is easier said than done, but they are the little steps which make the long way behind you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️You are very loved and supported.😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

      Celia SantiagoCelia Santiago21 päev tagasi
    • I understand you. It is really hard, but everything can be reached. What helped me was repeating the same self-love sentence(s) every day. For instance: "I am enough", "I deserve to be loved", "I deserve to be loved no matter how I look like", "I am loved", "I love myself", "My physical appearance doesn't determine my worth"... It also helped me looking myself in front of the mirror and listening myself. Listening my thoughts when seeing me. And if they were negative, trying to explain myself that they weren't true and shape them into positive ones. I hope it's useful for you. In any case, these are just some pieces of advice which were useful to me, but each person is different and I'm not a professional on the topic. I really recommend you to go to a psychologist. It is the best person who can help you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ It is a long way, but you will get through it and you will learn to love yourself.❤️😘😘😘😘😘

      Celia SantiagoCelia Santiago21 päev tagasi
  • So inspiring and necessary.

    Sara Gutiérrez MoralesSara Gutiérrez MoralesМісяць tagasi
  • Have you thought abt the name I suggest Ashley ash for short

    kayden carpedekayden carpedeМісяць tagasi
  • Love u guys so much

    Aneke SeymourAneke SeymourМісяць tagasi
  • I just subscribed and didn’t realize you guys are from pittsburgh! I live in pittsburgh too!

    Amanda MastersAmanda MastersМісяць tagasi
  • Normalise stretch marks 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Everybody has them. Who’s skin hasn’t stretched since birth?! 😂😂 2021 is the year of self love, self care & self acceptance ❤️💚💛💜🤍💙🤎🧡🖤💖

    Leanne ReillyLeanne ReillyМісяць tagasi
  • Thank you! ❤️

    Jelena HudekJelena HudekМісяць tagasi
  • The way that you support each other is so inspiring 🥺❤️

    anonanonМісяць tagasi
  • my god abbie. this was the most inspiring video. holy crappppp everything u said was just right and correct

    s ss sМісяць tagasi
  • that’s disgusting what the makeup artist said. ur skin wasn’t “bad” it was just not society’s norms. i have a lot of trouble with skin so i can’t imagine

    s ss sМісяць tagasi
  • Summary: she is alcoholic

    Shivam BectorShivam Bector2 місяці tagasi
  • That's what i'm going through and i'm mad with myself for gaining weight, i AM 1.70 mts and i used to weight 50 kilos, now i hate myself because My current weight is 56

    Itzel EspinosaItzel Espinosa2 місяці tagasi
  • thank you abbie i love you

    Kaitlyn JonesKaitlyn Jones2 місяці tagasi
  • I adore you both, but to hear you (a 5’9 model goddess) say things like, “I don’t know why you still hung out with me back then?!” And “I have *A* (singular) stretch mark! It’s so cute!” Makes me wanna jump off a cliff lol. Pretty girls can be as terrible as they come and men will still kiss the ground they walk on. While average to ugly girls can be literally perfect otherwise and men won’t even notice them. Beauty is so twisted! But you’re definitely NOT terrible or anything I was just saying if you felt you were being that way, I promise you, no man even sees that crap when it comes to you lol

    LalalaLalala2 місяці tagasi
  • Thank you for sharing guys. That was a great inspiration for all people especially woman 😊❤️

    Aninditha VeeraAninditha Veera2 місяці tagasi
  • Your stunning!

    Susanna MeddaouiSusanna Meddaoui2 місяці tagasi
  • This hit home so much. Thank you so much for sharing! I too went "all in" on au natural and I got a problem with my teeth, and then rashes... and it was only once I stopped obsessing about it that my body could be normal. Thank you so much for sharing. Such an inspiration!

    Patricia AnthonyPatricia Anthony2 місяці tagasi
  • Your so right Abbie ! We as women need to love our body . I had two baby boys back to back and they are now 3&4 and I still haven’t lost the baby weight and I got a lot of stretched marks with my second one and I’m ok with it and so should all mommies out there

    Edith MedinaEdith Medina2 місяці tagasi
  • How close are you to delivering? I'm so anxious waiting to see baby herbert!

    Abby MeedelAbby Meedel2 місяці tagasi
  • Thank you so so much for this

    Febe De BrabanterFebe De Brabanter2 місяці tagasi
  • i love this

    Sophia KhourySophia Khoury2 місяці tagasi
  • You look amazing and I'm not saying it just to say it. I have watched you grow from the thin woman you were to the beautiful woman you are now!! He's right you look amazing and very beautiful 😍

    Francisca WallaceFrancisca Wallace2 місяці tagasi
  • Jesus is our savior

    Isabel PetersonIsabel Peterson2 місяці tagasi
  • Nobody is born ugly, we just live in a judgemental society

    Olivia DamianiOlivia Damiani2 місяці tagasi
  • How did you get rid of your PCOS Acne??

    Keyanna ClevengerKeyanna Clevenger2 місяці tagasi
  • aw

    raveena hooseinraveena hoosein2 місяці tagasi
  • Me getting worried bc I’m a 5’11 model whose waist is 23 inches....

    Georgia MaeGeorgia Mae2 місяці tagasi
    • As long as you’re healthy mentally and physically there is nothing wrong with that! Everyone’s body is different. For me, being a 23 waist was not healthy.

      The HerbertsThe Herberts2 місяці tagasi
  • Abbie you are a strong woman and I know that you can get through this. You are beautiful whether you think it or not. I know that you and josh are going to be amazing parents to your amazing daughter. Stay strong; I’m sending all my love to you guys ❤️

    emem2 місяці tagasi
  • ❤️

    Anja RAnja R2 місяці tagasi
  • Your experiences are helpful for everyone🥲 Thank you for your sharing🥺

    林小百合林小百合2 місяці tagasi
  • wait how did I not know you guys live in Pittsburgh? Me too!

    Kate SnyderKate Snyder2 місяці tagasi
  • You are so strong!! I love you guys♡

    Jana WielfaertJana Wielfaert2 місяці tagasi
  • I love this 🥺 I was so insecure about the stretch marks I’m getting (I’m pregnant too) my fiancé flat out said “I think they’re beautiful”🥺🥰

    Cayla BurrowsCayla Burrows2 місяці tagasi
  • This was so incredible 🤍 my sister is pregnant right now and is dealing with this I sent it to her like this if me and her should make a video about this on my channel 🤍🤍🤍 so proud of youu

    Lynne SquadLynne Squad2 місяці tagasi
  • Loveeee youuu both... ❤️❤️❤️ From Mauritius 🇲🇺

    Presh NaPresh Na2 місяці tagasi
  • You guys are so inspiring. Thank you very much. You are just beautiful just the way you are😍♥️ love u😙🌹

    Sahanmi JayawardanaSahanmi Jayawardana2 місяці tagasi
  • thanks for sharing this abbie! we are all proud of you ❤️

    veevee2 місяці tagasi
  • Proud of you Abbie!! Thank you for sharing this!! So many people need it!!

    Katherine Nielson.Katherine Nielson.2 місяці tagasi
  • they say “tHe HeRbErTs✨” like “tHe SiMpSoNs✨”

    t a n y a s h a h i d it a n y a s h a h i d i2 місяці tagasi
  • Yes thanks you Abbie you are doing so much positive in others life!! So thankful to have you in my life 💗💗

    Lilly HayesLilly Hayes2 місяці tagasi
  • It’s not necessarily that I want to be skinnier because of other people. I want to be skinnier because I feel uncomfortable when I gain weight. Although I have gained a little weight this past week.😂

    GurrrlGurrrl2 місяці tagasi
  • This made me very emotional! I’m so happy for you and very very proud of the both of you for overcoming your fears. I love y’all 💓💓💓💓

    Marss TMarss T2 місяці tagasi
  • Modeling can be so toxic :/

    Abby SchwartzAbby Schwartz2 місяці tagasi
  • So proud of you Abbie :)

    Abby SchwartzAbby Schwartz2 місяці tagasi
  • amazing❤

    Sol Gritti GodinoSol Gritti Godino2 місяці tagasi
  • Alright. Let me just say. You are Gorgeous! Don’t let anyone ever tell you differently. God has made you so incredibly gorgeous, inside and out! I love going to tanger and walk around and then see one of your photos they are so pretty! We all love you guys so so much! You guys keep doing what your doing! Ya’ll are such fun and exciting people! I love you guys! ❤️❤️

    BunbunBunbun2 місяці tagasi
  • Abbie you’re so beautiful. you guys, thank you for doing this video, it’s super important to give a voice to this problems. thank you and keep doing this ❤️❤️

    Joana DamascenoJoana Damasceno2 місяці tagasi
  • God bless you all have a good health, stay safe and live your life... We live once if there's a life after this life just be yourself, love your loved ones.... Be happy with what you don't compare anyone with anything. Don't judge book by its cover itself, read it throughout the end explore the adventure. God bless you beautiful Abbie your baby and your beautiful family my prayers are there for you all 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕

    Shivani PatelShivani Patel2 місяці tagasi
  • I’m 160 & I used to hate my body, but thx to you guys I feel so much better

    Jessica Crammer-SkiesJessica Crammer-Skies2 місяці tagasi

    Jessica Crammer-SkiesJessica Crammer-Skies2 місяці tagasi
  • You're a such an inspiring person 😊 I love that😃👍❤

    Victoria LenczukVictoria Lenczuk2 місяці tagasi
  • you have come a looong way and i am so proud of you!! i recovered from my disorders recently but not fully? its a constant struggle everyday to choose self love over the obsessions. love you guys! xo

    Fryni kalliFryni kalli2 місяці tagasi
  • You are amazing and thanks for sharing your story ❤️

    Ariana HanleyAriana Hanley2 місяці tagasi
  • Labrant fam just posted a vid like this lol

    Kym NikolajukKym Nikolajuk2 місяці tagasi
  • abby with this video, with all those things you've said.. you are changing the world. You are part of the change. THANKS SO MUCH. it fills me with joy and love. i wish you so much love and strength for everything that comes your way

    Debora ForgioneDebora Forgione2 місяці tagasi
  • Well done! That video was so open and honest and I am proud for you! You are amazing Individuals and as a couple xx

    Kelly MorrisKelly Morris2 місяці tagasi
  • thank you for this it has helped me realize i’m beautiful the way i am!!!❤️❤️ can wait to see baby bean!!🤍

    Brooke ZBrooke Z2 місяці tagasi
  • Loved this!❤️

    Valarie MarieValarie Marie2 місяці tagasi
  • Wow. You guys so Honest! Thank you! It gives many who struggles some kind of mind and opinion how to be good. Struggling and then just being strong human being. Thank you! Hugs 🤗

    Polly BrandsPolly Brands2 місяці tagasi
  • Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 you guys are amazing for sharing this personal experience.

    andrea gonzalezandrea gonzalez2 місяці tagasi
  • I have pcos too and I was bullied because I did have rapid weight gain and my doctor told me I just needed to exercise for it even though that’s not what I needed to do and I just felt awful and now I’m trying to get to be a healthier version of myself for me not anyone else and sadly covid has put me in a down place because of it

    Sage AlanaSage Alana2 місяці tagasi
  • Abbie, you look beautiful

    Emily JardineEmily Jardine2 місяці tagasi

    Sydney CzerniukSydney Czerniuk2 місяці tagasi
  • Do you still drink alcohol?

    Adria PageAdria Page2 місяці tagasi
  • I’m so glad you shared your story and you look so happy and healthy!

    SarahSarah2 місяці tagasi
  • Love it❤️🙏

    ChloeChloe2 місяці tagasi
  • 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    Nicole Maxwell RebolledoNicole Maxwell Rebolledo2 місяці tagasi
  • For real, i'm inspired. I love you guy's content so muchh

    Tomiloba YoloyeTomiloba Yoloye2 місяці tagasi
  • i’ m so happy for you

    JelenaJelena2 місяці tagasi
  • Today with all the social media, especially young girls feel the pressure to look like models. You have to be ideal. I remember when I was in high school and I wanted to lose weight so much, I had a little bit of fat on my stomach when I sat as everyone does and I remember I was sucking it in every time. It had gone to a point that I was doing it all the time and automatically. I also tried to fast so I could lose some weight but it was impossible. Then I finished high school and like a month later I got into a chronic illness that affects my intestines. For two years now I can't eat normal food, I have to be careful with what I'm eating, it has to be cooked, no raw vegetables or fruits. I lost so much weight that I was at the beginning of having anemia. Not to mention how it affected my mental health. It is sad that living in the 21st century we still have to bother with this kind of problems. Why we have to go through so many struggles to then realize that we were perfect from the beginning? Why couldn't someone tell us that before? We have to change that image and show the true NORMAL. I really like when companies use natural-looking women for their clothes campaigns, with stretch marks, freckles, fat, etc. How many women look like the Hadid sisters in real life? I've met only one and she was a model too. Abbie, I am really happy for you, that you managed to overcome your problems and you found your happy place and I am grateful you are sharing your story again

    angelika angelangelika angel2 місяці tagasi
  • 💕💕💕💕💕

    I s a b e l l aI s a b e l l a2 місяці tagasi
  • This video did help one person, and it was me

    I s a b e l l aI s a b e l l a2 місяці tagasi
  • Love this video, I also have struggles with body image

    I s a b e l l aI s a b e l l a2 місяці tagasi
  • You’re so inspiring Abbie & Josh, I want to thank you to talk about your struggles because you’re helping people ! Also thank you to make us laugh ( + I'm improving my english when I watch your videos) lots of love from France !!

    Parker EléonoreParker Eléonore2 місяці tagasi
  • Thank you for sharing your story. You are a glowing queen. As long you are happy physically and mentally nothing else matter. Sending lots of love all the way from Miami.

    bania Penabania Pena2 місяці tagasi
  • Thanks for sharing your story!! So inspiring!!! Beautiful inside & out!!

    Courtney BautistaCourtney Bautista2 місяці tagasi
  • Thank you both for sharing your life story. You are going to help so many people. Oh and y’all are so funny and cute XO

    Vanessa CastellanosVanessa Castellanos2 місяці tagasi
  • I also struggled with an eating disorder when i was 13 for two years but since then i am 2 years recovered and feeling so much better!

    Ellen TraversEllen Travers2 місяці tagasi
  • I did have to stop watching those what I eat in a day. Made me so unhappy

    FannyFanny2 місяці tagasi
  • I’m so proud of you, you go girl 💕👑. You are so beautiful and you are glowing

    Amra TalićAmra Talić2 місяці tagasi
  • Your glowing girl

    Kendra GraylingKendra Grayling2 місяці tagasi
  • For anyone with body dismorthia or a bad body image all bodies are different and people yous different techniques to be comfortable or more themselves and that depends on the person but even if we all ate drank and were just like each other we'd still be different and that is ok !! you are beautiful and your body is beautiful don't be scared to show it love you all !!!💕

    Jaime-leigh BrysonJaime-leigh Bryson2 місяці tagasi
  • do you mind me asking what medicine you went on for the cystic acne? I'm currently dealing with some and its been hard.

    Alyssa GuntherAlyssa Gunther2 місяці tagasi